Husband wife relationship is unique but full of surprises. It has lots of sexy curves but unfortunately some goes downwards.
I am married for five years now and feel I have more or less understood my better half but She gives me shocks after shocks and I keep wondering what’s cooking and coming next.
You can share anything with your wife without even thinking except about other fairer sex.
If you do so by mistake, she will make sure you listen and get in back foot all your life in every arguments.
You can’t even talk about them or can’t see them. The result is always same.
You are screwed.
I have an habit of keeping things out of place like towel,news paper as per my convenience which I guess every normal man has.
First I got instructed for keeping things in place.
Later I was scolded
I am screwed every time I make this type of mistake.
I am sure after few years I will be hanged such stupid mistakes.
So I live in fear and make sure there is no outburst from my side, so that everything is cool and calm.
Expectations has no boundaries in married life.
Initially I was expected to keep things organised n tidy which I started doing to avoid arguments.
Later she wanted me to do few household chores along with keeping things organised and tidy.
When I started doing both
She said I don’t compliment her these days.
She gets irritated if she has left an empty bottle for me to fill and I don’t do it
I have overlooked a stain somewhere which otherwise she will tell me or will do it on her own
I guess its her mood so I keep my mouth shut and do whatever she says.
Always expects some thing or the other which I don’t get it on my own for obvious reasons and need to be told.
I think its best for man to be calm and cool at these times and do what she says. Its just few minutes of pain.
Result : Peace at home and mind for a much longer time than you expected. Hours of gain.
Anger has its own place in our lives with different meanings
She can display it anytime with reasons attributed to external factors but I am not allowed to show at all as it hurts her and she feels deep pain in her heart.
Anger towards the kid can be increased or decreased based on her mood or due to our arguments and when I tell her to stop
She keeps getting angry at all sorts of people who are distantly relative to us and when I say why do u care and spoiling your mood.
She says I don’t care for her.
I remember when we started dating I used give her enough time and whatever money I had for her shopping.
There was no home, no car and my expenses were minimal as I was living alone.
Now my salary tripled but major chunk goes to EMI’s and what’s left spent in for household expenses.
She says I am changed after marriage as I don’t have time and enough money for shopping.
I am told to stop her when she thinks of buying anything even slightly expensive by her own self.
I do that all the time
She says you don’t allow me to buy anything.
You have changed.
I am always on my toes to keep my behavior against social limits.
She does take care of our kid very well but expects me to handle few things without saying.
A difficult one as I don’t understand when her mood is off. When is she expecting me to do and what ?
I think the list goes on and doesn’t end till the end of our lives. The problems has no ending but we all try to go on with it.
Life is so simple but we all try to make it complicated and complex. We end up fighting with each other for petty issues